btw… next season Blair is going to be the ‘lonely girl’… who is she talking to about anything? Chuck? lmao … Nate? mmmm it’s been seasons since those two have an actual talk… 


carrionrockr:

“i don’t know which kind of love is better”

THE ONE WHERE YOU FEEL SAFE AND STRONG

THE ONE WHERE HE LOVES YOU FOR YOU

THE ONE WHERE HE’LL ALWAYS BE THERE FOR YOU

THE ONE WHERE YOU’RE EQUAL

YOU POOR CONFUSED WOMAN


iwaitforwords:

So this just sort of happened. Honestly, I’m just tired of seeing people telling me and other DB fans to ‘Just get over the hotel already!’ and that ‘It happened years ago! [insert insult here]’ because I do have my reasons for not being over it.

Just because you’re over it doesn’t mean everybody else has to be.

Look, Blair has already forgiven Chuck for it. Good for her. But anyone can see that the damage that the incident caused has left her broken, still, even after 2 years. She finds it hard to trust Chuck. She finds it easy to believe in the worst in him. Most of all, she lost sight of the strong and willful woman that she once used to be because of him. This is why it’s so infuriating that people even have the nerve to call her a bitch for bringing it up. WTF. She has every right to do so because guess what? It happened, and it broke her and she’s still trying to recover from it.

If you’re someone who has managed to forgive (and forget) and let go of it, good for you or whatever. But you know what? In real life, when someone betrays your trust, when someone hurts and destroys you, sometimes it takes a week to heal… sometimes it takes a year and sometimes even more than that.

This is an important and serious issue to me. Maybe it isn’t for some and that’s why it’s so easy for them to move on from it, but it is for me and for some other people as well. Why can’t people just understand that? And it isn’t just about the hotel. It’s about everything that it stands for. The disrespect, the emotional abuse… he took her self-worth and he sucked the strong and powerful woman right out of her. I can’t stand that, and I can’t stand a relationship like that. To me, it’s not right and it never will be.

I honestly don’t understand how anybody can ship Chuck and Blair after everything, even after all the apologies because to me, they just destroy each other whenever they’re together… sometimes sooner, sometimes later but it always happens one way or another. But I do understand that not everyone sees things the way I do. Maybe some people interpret these events and these scenes differently, and though I can’t see it their way no matter how hard I try, I at least have the decency to respect that they have a different perspective than I do. I wish others can find it in their hearts to respect my opinion as I do theirs.

This. Every word of this. 


“I have a feeling the real Blair Waldorf is a lot closer than you think. It wasn’t all that long ago that she and I were working side by side at W. And I totally fell for her. That girl is fiercely strong, independent, outspoken, beautiful, capable of anything. And no man or magazine should be able to take that away from her”


Dair and Caskett parallels-There is no ‘us’

Castle 2.14/Gossip Girl 5.04